Suz
(the future) MRS. GERE
I work with a wonderful young woman who has a son presenting a problem I'm unfamiliar with. I am hoping that within our board family there is someone(s) who has been through this or can offer some guidance to help her sweet baby James.
Thanks,
Suz
My son James is 13 months old, and he has been diagnosed as a "breath holder" since he was 9 months old. He can have breath holding episodes when he is scared, hurt or upset about something, he cries out quickly, loses his breath and is unable to catch it, turns blue, passes out, and then has seizure like activity. Physicians have told me that it is involuntary, and that while it is sparked by a sudden emotion like pain or anger, the body takes over and shuts down his ability to breathe. Once he's passed out, the body resets itself (what looks like a seizure with his eyes rolled back, limbs stiff) and he then comes out of it crying, sweaty, and exhausted.
He has been seen by a neurologist, cardiologist, and has an appointment for an MRI and an otolaryngologist, but so far all of the specialists agree that he is completely healthy and that he will outgrow it. Most people tell me that it is a temper tantrum and that he is doing it on purpose, however, the look of pure fear and panic in his eyes when he can't breathe is something that dictates otherwise. And that he started at 9 months indicates to me that he isn't advanced enough to figure out how to be that manipulative. Kids that have this problem (5% of the population) typically start when they are older than he was, so I am looking for anyone that has experienced this with children of a younger age and I'm hoping to find out how long it took before they grew out of it!
Thanks,
Suz