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Help I need help kicked my son out
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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 70154" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Hi Sammie, welcome.</p><p></p><p>Your son is at the age where, unfortunately, if he does not want to do something, you cannot force him. It is definitely in the family's best interest that he not be in the home. The time has come for you to prepare yourself to detach. That means you are going to have to try and stop fixing him. In order for him to EVER hit rock bottom, everyone has to stop enabling him. He needs to be left to sink or swim on his own. This is the absolute hardest thing you will ever do. </p><p></p><p>This does not mean stop loving or caring. It simply means letting him know that you have had enough with his selfish and dangerous behaviors, that he has brought it on himself, and he is not allowed back in the house with his much younger siblings until and unless he is ready to face his issues and deal with them.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting as often as you need to. Welcome to the board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 70154, member: 3647"] Hi Sammie, welcome. Your son is at the age where, unfortunately, if he does not want to do something, you cannot force him. It is definitely in the family's best interest that he not be in the home. The time has come for you to prepare yourself to detach. That means you are going to have to try and stop fixing him. In order for him to EVER hit rock bottom, everyone has to stop enabling him. He needs to be left to sink or swim on his own. This is the absolute hardest thing you will ever do. This does not mean stop loving or caring. It simply means letting him know that you have had enough with his selfish and dangerous behaviors, that he has brought it on himself, and he is not allowed back in the house with his much younger siblings until and unless he is ready to face his issues and deal with them. Keep posting as often as you need to. Welcome to the board. [/QUOTE]
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