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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 596357" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>My situation is very similar to yours... and I just got home from my alanon meeting. I too really urge you to find a meeting, especially one for parents. I cant say i have total peace or serenity... too much of a roller coaster ride for that BUT I am in such a different place than I was 2.5 years ago when I went to my first alanon meeting. I am sleeping (not always great when things are bad), am much clearer about my boundaries, do not feel guilty any more and am very clear that I really have done all I can and it is his life to live and his choices to make.</p><p></p><p> One of the things they say that helps is you didnt cause it, cant cure it, and cant control it. Taking that in and believing that really helps.</p><p></p><p>*TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 596357, member: 15801"] My situation is very similar to yours... and I just got home from my alanon meeting. I too really urge you to find a meeting, especially one for parents. I cant say i have total peace or serenity... too much of a roller coaster ride for that BUT I am in such a different place than I was 2.5 years ago when I went to my first alanon meeting. I am sleeping (not always great when things are bad), am much clearer about my boundaries, do not feel guilty any more and am very clear that I really have done all I can and it is his life to live and his choices to make. One of the things they say that helps is you didnt cause it, cant cure it, and cant control it. Taking that in and believing that really helps. *TL [/QUOTE]
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