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<blockquote data-quote="CAmom" data-source="post: 147957" data-attributes="member: 1835"><p>Suz, it was when I was typing my post that I saw for myself (and agree with you now) that I had contributed to my very own stated problem by not taking a firmer stand and being wishy-washy as I've done in the past. I'm only blaming myself to that extent. </p><p></p><p>You're so right that he should be made to keep his word. I guess I sometimes feel that, if I pretend a blase attitude about certain things, he'll step up and do the right thing without being forced. And he does, sometimes. </p><p></p><p>But, I know that, by allowing him to break his word rather than deal with his complaining, I'm only helping him perpetuate his Peter-Pan syndrome. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for the wake-up call...i.e., I can't make up for the lost time but rather can only hope for a positive future. I need to get myself back into the here and now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CAmom, post: 147957, member: 1835"] Suz, it was when I was typing my post that I saw for myself (and agree with you now) that I had contributed to my very own stated problem by not taking a firmer stand and being wishy-washy as I've done in the past. I'm only blaming myself to that extent. You're so right that he should be made to keep his word. I guess I sometimes feel that, if I pretend a blase attitude about certain things, he'll step up and do the right thing without being forced. And he does, sometimes. But, I know that, by allowing him to break his word rather than deal with his complaining, I'm only helping him perpetuate his Peter-Pan syndrome. Thanks for the wake-up call...i.e., I can't make up for the lost time but rather can only hope for a positive future. I need to get myself back into the here and now. [/QUOTE]
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