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<blockquote data-quote="2128" data-source="post: 100303" data-attributes="member: 4344"><p>we did family therapy with my other son. of course that has been a long time ago. he behaved well at that point in time. i keep in mind though that he was younger. </p><p></p><p>as i said before, i think that he does well with peers and authorites at school because he is putting on an act for them. i don't think that he is showing them the "real" person he is. i think that he believes if they found out how he really acts, everyone would turn their backs on him. </p><p></p><p>i have asked why i don't get the behavior that he gives those at school. his response; "i don't know, i just don't".</p><p></p><p>i keep telling myself that it is his age. but then i also think that if he acts like this at 10, what will he be like at 15? </p><p></p><p>as far as lying, i feel that he thinks that he has gotten away with it with enough people, that he just keeps right on doing it. i can tell when he is lying, but i feel that maybe those in charge at school can't always see it.</p><p></p><p>stealing--i must admit, he hasn't done it in a while. and the things that he has taken from stores, i have made him return along with explaining to the manager. he can't stand having to face the ones that he has stolen from. perhaps that's why he hasn't done it in a while.</p><p></p><p>i feel that divorce may have something to do with it. his OP isn't always there for him. perhaps trying to express himself about that, but unsure how?</p><p></p><p>i've been off the last few days and he has been here with me. other than some minor outbursts about some silly things, he's been pretty good. but that could change at a moments notice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2128, post: 100303, member: 4344"] we did family therapy with my other son. of course that has been a long time ago. he behaved well at that point in time. i keep in mind though that he was younger. as i said before, i think that he does well with peers and authorites at school because he is putting on an act for them. i don't think that he is showing them the "real" person he is. i think that he believes if they found out how he really acts, everyone would turn their backs on him. i have asked why i don't get the behavior that he gives those at school. his response; "i don't know, i just don't". i keep telling myself that it is his age. but then i also think that if he acts like this at 10, what will he be like at 15? as far as lying, i feel that he thinks that he has gotten away with it with enough people, that he just keeps right on doing it. i can tell when he is lying, but i feel that maybe those in charge at school can't always see it. stealing--i must admit, he hasn't done it in a while. and the things that he has taken from stores, i have made him return along with explaining to the manager. he can't stand having to face the ones that he has stolen from. perhaps that's why he hasn't done it in a while. i feel that divorce may have something to do with it. his OP isn't always there for him. perhaps trying to express himself about that, but unsure how? i've been off the last few days and he has been here with me. other than some minor outbursts about some silly things, he's been pretty good. but that could change at a moments notice. [/QUOTE]
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