Hi I am new here and need advice. I have been married for 4 years and am raising my two step children. My step-son has always caused grief in our family but it seems to be getting worse. He has no emotion, thinks that death is funny, says off the wall things to try to hurt me, lies, steals, does not want to listen to anyone who has authority. My husband works between 160-180 hours every two weeks and is never home and even left them with me when he was deployed for 16 months. There mother never even wanted him and plays favorites between the two. Just Saturday night he told me he didn't care if I was here or not. He said that if my husband and I had a baby together that he might hurt it if he got mad at me. I am in nursing school and had a child die three weeks ago. He thought it was funny and taunted me in front of his dad. I have tried everything. Nothing means anything to him. He has also talked about hurting animals and has busted my lip in one of his rages. He says he does not remember it. I feel like I am going crazy and that he is going to ruin my marriage. Please help me!!!!