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Help please! I need to ask if I was a bad mother. Feel like one.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 609572" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Sig, you are another angel and your words are so true.</p><p></p><p>In my heart, I know he will never be able to be a real son, in the normal sense. He has always been this way. And you are right. When he would swear at me, blame me, and abuse me, he would sometimes text "You owe me an apology." Huh???? And never once has he apologized to me by saying, "I am just so stressed. I am sorry I lost control." Not even that, which is an apology I would have accepted. In his mind, I am wrong, he is never wrong. His thinking is distorted and irrational and there is nothing I can do about it. To be honest, I'm not sure I want to know the outcome of the depo anyway, but i called him because I knew he'd probably be upset. He does not do well under pressure and when he has to seem likeable. It hurts me to hear when he does badly so it was unknowingly kind of him to spare me the details.</p><p></p><p>I thank you also. This was a very hard little stretch for me and I appreciate you for your common sense and kind response. This board is truly filled with loving people and you are one of them. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 609572, member: 1550"] Sig, you are another angel and your words are so true. In my heart, I know he will never be able to be a real son, in the normal sense. He has always been this way. And you are right. When he would swear at me, blame me, and abuse me, he would sometimes text "You owe me an apology." Huh???? And never once has he apologized to me by saying, "I am just so stressed. I am sorry I lost control." Not even that, which is an apology I would have accepted. In his mind, I am wrong, he is never wrong. His thinking is distorted and irrational and there is nothing I can do about it. To be honest, I'm not sure I want to know the outcome of the depo anyway, but i called him because I knew he'd probably be upset. He does not do well under pressure and when he has to seem likeable. It hurts me to hear when he does badly so it was unknowingly kind of him to spare me the details. I thank you also. This was a very hard little stretch for me and I appreciate you for your common sense and kind response. This board is truly filled with loving people and you are one of them. Thanks from the bottom of my heart. [/QUOTE]
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