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Help please! I need to ask if I was a bad mother. Feel like one.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 609614" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Scent and Recovering, thanks again.</p><p></p><p>I will buy the book. You are right (both of you). He has a need to control me by intimidating and belittling me. Why he has this need doesn't matter, although I suspect it is so that I will do exactly what he wants. Or say exactly what he wants. And that is impossible. He is like the husband abuser who insists his wife have an absolutely spotless house and freaks out if he dares to find one little piece of dust on a desk and uses it as a reason to abuse. </p><p></p><p>The more I read the more I realize that kids who are this awful to us are WANTING to take control over us and, if we let them, they will destroy us. I read in one article that some grown kids find it funny!! Huh? 35 is mean to everyone though. </p><p></p><p>I am so grateful for this group on PE in particular. All I can say is...thank you, thank you, thank you!!! (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 609614, member: 1550"] Scent and Recovering, thanks again. I will buy the book. You are right (both of you). He has a need to control me by intimidating and belittling me. Why he has this need doesn't matter, although I suspect it is so that I will do exactly what he wants. Or say exactly what he wants. And that is impossible. He is like the husband abuser who insists his wife have an absolutely spotless house and freaks out if he dares to find one little piece of dust on a desk and uses it as a reason to abuse. The more I read the more I realize that kids who are this awful to us are WANTING to take control over us and, if we let them, they will destroy us. I read in one article that some grown kids find it funny!! Huh? 35 is mean to everyone though. I am so grateful for this group on PE in particular. All I can say is...thank you, thank you, thank you!!! (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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