happymomof2
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Try to make this short. Just looking for a bit of advice. Son got arrested last November, 2 other kids were involved. 1 of them denied it and somehow he got off. There is a rumor going around that he, along with some of his buddies want to jump my son up for "snitching" on him. What the heck he didn't even get in trouble. Anyway - he will be 18 end of this month my son is only 15. I know my son could take him one on one that I am not worried about. Of course I don't want him to fight period but what I am worried about is my son getting into more trouble. He will be off probation the beginning of June, but his adjudication was withheld which means he basically can't get into trouble until he is 19 or he will be charged with a felony for his November arrest.
Even if this other kid starts it my son can still get into trouble. I have told my son just to walk away, but being a 15 year old boy do you really think he is going to do that? Plus I do expect him to defend himself if needed. I don't want to make my sons life a living he** at school or around the neighborhood. Someone suggest I take out a restraining order, someone else suggested I talk to his probation officer and see what he says.
I know I can't protect him from everything and he has to make his own decisions but I want to help where I can.
What would you guys do?
Thanks
Even if this other kid starts it my son can still get into trouble. I have told my son just to walk away, but being a 15 year old boy do you really think he is going to do that? Plus I do expect him to defend himself if needed. I don't want to make my sons life a living he** at school or around the neighborhood. Someone suggest I take out a restraining order, someone else suggested I talk to his probation officer and see what he says.
I know I can't protect him from everything and he has to make his own decisions but I want to help where I can.
What would you guys do?
Thanks