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<blockquote data-quote="Matty's Mummy" data-source="post: 239616" data-attributes="member: 5222"><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Thank you, I asked an online friend here in Australia for help to, so hopefully we end up with someone that has a clue, I just cant be stuffed around, get sucked down by their lack of understanding, and lose precious time while I try and convince them that Im not to blame. </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">I just wish we were at home (Brisbane) back there the school/ teachers have known me for years and know what we have been through with our eldest, seen the lengths we went to, to help him </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Our Doctor knows our/ my history and knows how I have parented in spite of everything I have endured, our eldest sons phycologist knows us knows how hard we work at helping our kids, she knows my history.. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">My own psychiatrist is back there, hes treated my uncle, sister in-laws x2. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Would never dream of suggesting that my own mental illness is the problem </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Im feeling really overwhelmed, you know even our Pead when I took my son with own syndrome, sent me off to Food clinic. Now I thought great I should be able to get heaps of ideas from this to help </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">When I turned up, we had a teen of Speech therapist, Occupational therapist, deitition, social worker plus someone else. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">After looking at the different foods and textures I brought with me, and talking to me for less than 10mins. </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">The social worker looked at the others with a look and then said to me, I dont understand why you were sent to us, usually we only see parents that need nutrition advice then the Speech therapist said you have had a child with a Cleft lip and palate, you know all about texture and how texture effects swallowing and gagging, you could probably tell us more than we could tell you </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Then they looked at each other in a look, and I just knew the Pead had sent us cause she thought I was bl**dy hopeless. I was so embarrassed not as much as they were though, they couldnt offer me anything. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Now Im just feeling like Im getting this everywhere I go. What he hell is wrong with people to put me in a box like that. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">This woman yesterday also asked me what religious stuff I have taught my kids. Well nothing. I think that came about because I stupidly told her that I had some religious Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) stuff (again from what I have read online and my own psychiatrist) it is really common to have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) religious thoughts. </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">And OMG even my sons teacher, yesterday, she sat with us while he read a book, then same book she had read ONCE the day before ( we dot have this book at home) then after she listened to him read a few pages, she got up as she did she said oh he has such a great memory to remember all that </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Far out, hes been reading since 4years old he is now 5, I have had this talk with her before and she said that children at this age, read from memory. Um no he can read, even the teacher aide said to me he is reading he reminds her of the guy in Rain man movie. Only Matthew doesnt have Autism like that. </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">So Im just really feeling it now from all angles. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Just spoke to my mum and she said I told you know to get help!!!!!!! ok so she yelled at me. And she also said not to cancel with them until I have another appointment with someone else </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">I was think they same they might think, they need to act? Who knows. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">This is ****, I always tell people on other forums dont be afraid to reach out for help with your Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), these thoughts are just thoughts, people with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) come up with the most terrifying imaginations thoughts and that is all they are, it will never be acted on, your kids are not at risk.. I know this because my psychiatrist assured me .now Im think **** it up deal with it at home cause the Risk is just not worth it. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">Thank God I have this forum </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">OMG <strong>Dreamer</strong> that is terrible, thank you though I wish I was more careful, I just feel like trying to get help for myself put my son at risk. Im healthy now I dotn suffer to much with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) but I wanted to be free of some compulsions.. . Im 36 and it just felt like time </span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><strong>Tiredmummy</strong> I agree if that was what it was about Id be all for it. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Matty's Mummy, post: 239616, member: 5222"] [SIZE=2]Thank you, I asked an online friend here in Australia for help to, so hopefully we end up with someone that has a clue, I just cant be stuffed around, get sucked down by their lack of understanding, and lose precious time while I try and convince them that Im not to blame. I just wish we were at home (Brisbane) back there the school/ teachers have known me for years and know what we have been through with our eldest, seen the lengths we went to, to help him Our Doctor knows our/ my history and knows how I have parented in spite of everything I have endured, our eldest sons phycologist knows us knows how hard we work at helping our kids, she knows my history.. My own psychiatrist is back there, hes treated my uncle, sister in-laws x2. Would never dream of suggesting that my own mental illness is the problem Im feeling really overwhelmed, you know even our Pead when I took my son with own syndrome, sent me off to Food clinic. Now I thought great I should be able to get heaps of ideas from this to help When I turned up, we had a teen of Speech therapist, Occupational therapist, deitition, social worker plus someone else. After looking at the different foods and textures I brought with me, and talking to me for less than 10mins. The social worker looked at the others with a look and then said to me, I dont understand why you were sent to us, usually we only see parents that need nutrition advice then the Speech therapist said you have had a child with a Cleft lip and palate, you know all about texture and how texture effects swallowing and gagging, you could probably tell us more than we could tell you Then they looked at each other in a look, and I just knew the Pead had sent us cause she thought I was bl**dy hopeless. I was so embarrassed not as much as they were though, they couldnt offer me anything. Now Im just feeling like Im getting this everywhere I go. What he hell is wrong with people to put me in a box like that. This woman yesterday also asked me what religious stuff I have taught my kids. Well nothing. I think that came about because I stupidly told her that I had some religious Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) stuff (again from what I have read online and my own psychiatrist) it is really common to have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) religious thoughts. And OMG even my sons teacher, yesterday, she sat with us while he read a book, then same book she had read ONCE the day before ( we dot have this book at home) then after she listened to him read a few pages, she got up as she did she said oh he has such a great memory to remember all that Far out, hes been reading since 4years old he is now 5, I have had this talk with her before and she said that children at this age, read from memory. Um no he can read, even the teacher aide said to me he is reading he reminds her of the guy in Rain man movie. Only Matthew doesnt have Autism like that. So Im just really feeling it now from all angles. Just spoke to my mum and she said I told you know to get help!!!!!!! ok so she yelled at me. And she also said not to cancel with them until I have another appointment with someone else I was think they same they might think, they need to act? Who knows. This is ****, I always tell people on other forums dont be afraid to reach out for help with your Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), these thoughts are just thoughts, people with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) come up with the most terrifying imaginations thoughts and that is all they are, it will never be acted on, your kids are not at risk.. I know this because my psychiatrist assured me .now Im think **** it up deal with it at home cause the Risk is just not worth it. Thank God I have this forum OMG [B]Dreamer[/B] that is terrible, thank you though I wish I was more careful, I just feel like trying to get help for myself put my son at risk. Im healthy now I dotn suffer to much with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) but I wanted to be free of some compulsions.. . Im 36 and it just felt like time [B]Tiredmummy[/B] I agree if that was what it was about Id be all for it. [/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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