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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 112845" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Jessica, my Lord, woman, are you going to wait until you DO have a stroke before you finally say "Enough"??</p><p></p><p>Stop doing - just stop. Go hang a large picture of your in-laws on your bathroom mirror and practice saying "No, I can't, call H". When they call, tell them, "Hang on, let me write this down for H" and when H gets home, hand it to him. Leave your house!!! Do not allow yourself to be available anymore. </p><p></p><p>Your health is in danger and if/when something truly serious happens to you, who will be there for YOU? Who will be there for the kiddos?? NO ONE!! They will find someone else to do their bidding.</p><p></p><p>Stop being their doormat and say NO. Tell H NO, Tell mother in law/father in law/sister in law/brother in law NO. You have to save yourself!! </p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.marriagebuilders.com" target="_blank">http://www.marriagebuilders.com</a></p><p></p><p>This website isn't perfect by any means, but it can help create better balance and at the very least some clarity for you. Check it out and make H take a look as well. You're supposed to be a team, a partnership. Nowhere does it say that the wife has to do everything and be a slave to H's entire family. What, are you the designated family mule? </p><p></p><p>Sending you LOTS of strength - pull yourself up and out of this situation NOW before it kills you. Hugs~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 112845, member: 2211"] Jessica, my Lord, woman, are you going to wait until you DO have a stroke before you finally say "Enough"?? Stop doing - just stop. Go hang a large picture of your in-laws on your bathroom mirror and practice saying "No, I can't, call H". When they call, tell them, "Hang on, let me write this down for H" and when H gets home, hand it to him. Leave your house!!! Do not allow yourself to be available anymore. Your health is in danger and if/when something truly serious happens to you, who will be there for YOU? Who will be there for the kiddos?? NO ONE!! They will find someone else to do their bidding. Stop being their doormat and say NO. Tell H NO, Tell mother in law/father in law/sister in law/brother in law NO. You have to save yourself!! [url="http://www.marriagebuilders.com"]http://www.marriagebuilders.com[/url] This website isn't perfect by any means, but it can help create better balance and at the very least some clarity for you. Check it out and make H take a look as well. You're supposed to be a team, a partnership. Nowhere does it say that the wife has to do everything and be a slave to H's entire family. What, are you the designated family mule? Sending you LOTS of strength - pull yourself up and out of this situation NOW before it kills you. Hugs~ [/QUOTE]
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