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<blockquote data-quote="Sami12088" data-source="post: 723436" data-attributes="member: 22492"><p>He is concerned! It took me however 3 years to convince him she needed help. He has said that he thought she was "0ff" since she was 5 years old. But his mom and his ex both said that she was acting like a normal child. Then for 3 years I was thinking that I was just the crazy step mom and I never had a kid that age before. She and I are only 16 years apart in age. </p><p>He agrees now, he is the one who pulled her from school and took her to her moms. We have not left her alone with the other kids in a long time. I fear the same thing you do. I make her stay after school till I get off work and can pick her up. She has stated to us in therapy that she hates the animals and only loves her bunny. But I fear for it as well, so she has been taken away from her. </p><p>The dogs leave with me to daycare every day we have a farm like I said 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, and 4 outdoor cats, along with chickens and goats. I run an animal rescue to rid our lives of these animals would be detrimental to not only my mental well being but the other two children who seek comfort in the pets. </p><p>She is currently not aloud back at our house as I fear she may kill me or my son in our sleep. We found video of my son and her sister sleeping on her tablet (freaking creepy). I just don't know if sending her to her addict mom's house is the best place. As cruel of me as it sounds husband and I are kind of saying good reddens to her. But are we just giving up, is it right to throw in the towel and make it someone else problem? My son is my top priority, husband and I have talked about living separately if we end up having to take her back, me keeping the other two kids and pets, but I fear for his safety as well...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sami12088, post: 723436, member: 22492"] He is concerned! It took me however 3 years to convince him she needed help. He has said that he thought she was "0ff" since she was 5 years old. But his mom and his ex both said that she was acting like a normal child. Then for 3 years I was thinking that I was just the crazy step mom and I never had a kid that age before. She and I are only 16 years apart in age. He agrees now, he is the one who pulled her from school and took her to her moms. We have not left her alone with the other kids in a long time. I fear the same thing you do. I make her stay after school till I get off work and can pick her up. She has stated to us in therapy that she hates the animals and only loves her bunny. But I fear for it as well, so she has been taken away from her. The dogs leave with me to daycare every day we have a farm like I said 6 dogs, 2 indoor cats, and 4 outdoor cats, along with chickens and goats. I run an animal rescue to rid our lives of these animals would be detrimental to not only my mental well being but the other two children who seek comfort in the pets. She is currently not aloud back at our house as I fear she may kill me or my son in our sleep. We found video of my son and her sister sleeping on her tablet (freaking creepy). I just don't know if sending her to her addict mom's house is the best place. As cruel of me as it sounds husband and I are kind of saying good reddens to her. But are we just giving up, is it right to throw in the towel and make it someone else problem? My son is my top priority, husband and I have talked about living separately if we end up having to take her back, me keeping the other two kids and pets, but I fear for his safety as well... [/QUOTE]
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