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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 703987" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>It is not your job or your responsibility to determine what your ex is into or not. The computers and everything else will be turned over.</p><p></p><p>All I am trying to say is that a boy should not have been exposed to anything like that. That is why there are parental controls on devices and why parents watch their kids. You are a victim here. You tried to intervene with your ex--and it backfired. He did the opposite of what you wanted.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>How could you not feel this way?</p><p></p><p>Your son was playing a part with you. He was being false and deceptive. He was attempting to victimize his own siblings. He created this environment of predation in your household. How could this not be creepy, and feel unsafe? Your home was being utilized was the aim of creating images to be consumed by child predators. This is a horrible betrayal.</p><p></p><p>You sensed what was real; you discovered it; and you revealed it.</p><p></p><p>With this begins the possibility of healing for everybody.</p><p></p><p>All I am saying is that I do not believe that kids like your 16 begin to do this kind of thing unless they are instructed, inducted into it. While some parents here believe in a "bad seed" I do not. Although once I met a man who might have fit this category. Only one time.</p><p></p><p>You seem to be such a loving and caring parent--I do not believe that a child of yours would have turned to this unless they had been pressured, compromised, turned, used by somebody. I believe he has a tale to tell, as well. Now he has a chance.</p><p></p><p>What you have done can help your son, as well as protect everybody else. Except those people that need to be held accountable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 703987, member: 18958"] It is not your job or your responsibility to determine what your ex is into or not. The computers and everything else will be turned over. All I am trying to say is that a boy should not have been exposed to anything like that. That is why there are parental controls on devices and why parents watch their kids. You are a victim here. You tried to intervene with your ex--and it backfired. He did the opposite of what you wanted. How could you not feel this way? Your son was playing a part with you. He was being false and deceptive. He was attempting to victimize his own siblings. He created this environment of predation in your household. How could this not be creepy, and feel unsafe? Your home was being utilized was the aim of creating images to be consumed by child predators. This is a horrible betrayal. You sensed what was real; you discovered it; and you revealed it. With this begins the possibility of healing for everybody. All I am saying is that I do not believe that kids like your 16 begin to do this kind of thing unless they are instructed, inducted into it. While some parents here believe in a "bad seed" I do not. Although once I met a man who might have fit this category. Only one time. You seem to be such a loving and caring parent--I do not believe that a child of yours would have turned to this unless they had been pressured, compromised, turned, used by somebody. I believe he has a tale to tell, as well. Now he has a chance. What you have done can help your son, as well as protect everybody else. Except those people that need to be held accountable. [/QUOTE]
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