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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 226375" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Sending Christmas hugs! She is a difficult child, but she is also on her own. You spoke out of anger and hurt. You do deserve a good Christmas with whatever family members decide to make it a good Christmas. </p><p></p><p>You can keep to your word of not seeing her tomorrow or you can call her and let her know that even though she behaved badly, you want the family together for Christmas. (she won't come if she hears blame so maybe, "I don't like how tonight went, but I love you and want us to be together tomorrow." You want a good day with everyone on their best behavior and you will address tonight the day after Christmas. If you do reinvite her, set some rules - be here at this time, there will be no discussion as to your behavior tonight, whatever you need her to know to make the day nice for you - maybe help with the dishes, etc.</p><p></p><p>You will know what is right for you and your family. I wish you didn't have to go through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 226375, member: 5096"] Sending Christmas hugs! She is a difficult child, but she is also on her own. You spoke out of anger and hurt. You do deserve a good Christmas with whatever family members decide to make it a good Christmas. You can keep to your word of not seeing her tomorrow or you can call her and let her know that even though she behaved badly, you want the family together for Christmas. (she won't come if she hears blame so maybe, "I don't like how tonight went, but I love you and want us to be together tomorrow." You want a good day with everyone on their best behavior and you will address tonight the day after Christmas. If you do reinvite her, set some rules - be here at this time, there will be no discussion as to your behavior tonight, whatever you need her to know to make the day nice for you - maybe help with the dishes, etc. You will know what is right for you and your family. I wish you didn't have to go through this. [/QUOTE]
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