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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 142978" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong>I'd like to pop in & have to say that I agree with meowbunny. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is a spectrum as you most likely know. I don't think it ever is totally "cured". In my mind, both of my children will never have a complete level of trust in anyone. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong>AND I have to say that my tweedles are the worst I've seen them right now. They are 13 & it's very very ugly here & at the group home. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong>I don't expect my tweedles to be grateful for taking them out of the lives they lived in - they were used to that life. They resented having to learn to live in a different environment & having to learn different expectations. On top of that, being expected to become a member of a family they had no clue existed & loving that family was more than wm or kt could handle.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong>Do they love us - yup, in their own way. I couldn't define what love is for kt or wm. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong>The only thing I remind kt & wm to remember is that their anger needs to be directed at others than myself. I'm not the one who hurt them & my job is to parent them & keep them safe. I will love them no matter what.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><strong></strong></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 142978, member: 393"] [COLOR=Navy][B]I'd like to pop in & have to say that I agree with meowbunny. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is a spectrum as you most likely know. I don't think it ever is totally "cured". In my mind, both of my children will never have a complete level of trust in anyone. AND I have to say that my tweedles are the worst I've seen them right now. They are 13 & it's very very ugly here & at the group home. I don't expect my tweedles to be grateful for taking them out of the lives they lived in - they were used to that life. They resented having to learn to live in a different environment & having to learn different expectations. On top of that, being expected to become a member of a family they had no clue existed & loving that family was more than wm or kt could handle. Do they love us - yup, in their own way. I couldn't define what love is for kt or wm. The only thing I remind kt & wm to remember is that their anger needs to be directed at others than myself. I'm not the one who hurt them & my job is to parent them & keep them safe. I will love them no matter what. [/B][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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