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<blockquote data-quote="CCRmama" data-source="post: 374355"><p>Marguerite Thank you so much! You explained it perfectly! I think I did exactly what you said. A big part of me has been thinking that my difficult child isn't on the spectrum because he lies all of the time, but like you said it's always pretty obvious that he isn't telling the truth. I have terrible guilt for what I put my parents through, but it kills me that the way the view my difficult child has changed. I appreciate your concern to keep my identity private. Thank you for your support, I feel like a ton of bricks just lifted off of my shoulders.</p><p></p><p>On a different note when your difficult child was younger was he/ she in constant competition with the other. It as though my difficult child is threatened by any affection I have for anyone else. My difficult child also feels like he is an adult and tries to take charge of my easy child whenever I turn my back. He will hit and yell at her for anything. For instance my difficult child will hit my easy child for imitating a noise he makes and then proceed to yell at easy child for crying. It feels like constant chaos at my house. I try to play games like memory but difficult child gets mad at easy child for not instantly knowing the correct way to play. When my husband difficult child comes for visitation who has been diagnosis with autism (his DM says she doesn't know where on the spectrum he is though) my difficult child will try to explain something to my husband difficult child and when I tell my difficult child kindly that my husband difficult child doesn't understand what he's trying to tell him then my difficult child starts repeating himself louder as if he thinks that my husband difficult child is just hard of hearing. </p><p></p><p>Oh yeah can making a hoo, hoo noise be a stimulant? I have noticed my difficult child doing this a lot, but when I told his counselor about this it didn't seem to phase her.</p><p></p><p>Again, thank you so much for reaching out to me. It means so much to me!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CCRmama, post: 374355"] Marguerite Thank you so much! You explained it perfectly! I think I did exactly what you said. A big part of me has been thinking that my difficult child isn't on the spectrum because he lies all of the time, but like you said it's always pretty obvious that he isn't telling the truth. I have terrible guilt for what I put my parents through, but it kills me that the way the view my difficult child has changed. I appreciate your concern to keep my identity private. Thank you for your support, I feel like a ton of bricks just lifted off of my shoulders. On a different note when your difficult child was younger was he/ she in constant competition with the other. It as though my difficult child is threatened by any affection I have for anyone else. My difficult child also feels like he is an adult and tries to take charge of my easy child whenever I turn my back. He will hit and yell at her for anything. For instance my difficult child will hit my easy child for imitating a noise he makes and then proceed to yell at easy child for crying. It feels like constant chaos at my house. I try to play games like memory but difficult child gets mad at easy child for not instantly knowing the correct way to play. When my husband difficult child comes for visitation who has been diagnosis with autism (his DM says she doesn't know where on the spectrum he is though) my difficult child will try to explain something to my husband difficult child and when I tell my difficult child kindly that my husband difficult child doesn't understand what he's trying to tell him then my difficult child starts repeating himself louder as if he thinks that my husband difficult child is just hard of hearing. Oh yeah can making a hoo, hoo noise be a stimulant? I have noticed my difficult child doing this a lot, but when I told his counselor about this it didn't seem to phase her. Again, thank you so much for reaching out to me. It means so much to me! [/QUOTE]
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