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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 498626" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Im not so sure your son is using drugs as an in a substance abuse or addiction way but as a manipulative way to get his own way to control you so you wont feel safe to do anything to him. As in...oh no, I cant possibly put my poor, pitiful drug using boy out because he might hurt himself. Blah. There is no way you and your husband should be held hostage in your own home. Absolutely none. Even if he is a full blown addict, I wouldnt advise that. Any person who behaves that way to his own parents needs to be gone. He will most likely do better when he is gone. I think you wrote that he does better when he is gone. That is the way my son is. My son does much better when he lives on his own. A man (which is what your son is) needs to feel like an adult and they dont feel like that living in your house. </p><p></p><p>I stand by my opinion to get him out no matter how you can do it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 498626, member: 1514"] Im not so sure your son is using drugs as an in a substance abuse or addiction way but as a manipulative way to get his own way to control you so you wont feel safe to do anything to him. As in...oh no, I cant possibly put my poor, pitiful drug using boy out because he might hurt himself. Blah. There is no way you and your husband should be held hostage in your own home. Absolutely none. Even if he is a full blown addict, I wouldnt advise that. Any person who behaves that way to his own parents needs to be gone. He will most likely do better when he is gone. I think you wrote that he does better when he is gone. That is the way my son is. My son does much better when he lives on his own. A man (which is what your son is) needs to feel like an adult and they dont feel like that living in your house. I stand by my opinion to get him out no matter how you can do it. [/QUOTE]
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