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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 498659"><p>First I am sorry for the loss of your mom..... my mom died about 8 years ago and it was very very hard and it takes some time to remember them without feeling the acute loss.</p><p></p><p>As far as your son... I agree with Janet you need to get him out of the house. No one deserves to live like you are with him doing destructive things in your home and scaring you. Home should be a sanctuary. Its funny when my son was home I could not wait until Monday when I could go to work and get away... after he was gone I hated to see Monday come because I enjoyed being home so much!!</p><p></p><p>It also sounds like your son does better when he is not at home!!! I think this is not unusual for young adults. At home they revert to their childish behaviors and think that somehow they can treat their parents badly with no consequences... really taking advantage of our love!!! Out in the world they learn quickly they cannot do that. I don't think your son will get the help he definitely needs while he is still living at home and doesn't have to do it.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to find shelters for single men... but when I was looking last week salvation army looks like they have some good options.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 498659"] First I am sorry for the loss of your mom..... my mom died about 8 years ago and it was very very hard and it takes some time to remember them without feeling the acute loss. As far as your son... I agree with Janet you need to get him out of the house. No one deserves to live like you are with him doing destructive things in your home and scaring you. Home should be a sanctuary. Its funny when my son was home I could not wait until Monday when I could go to work and get away... after he was gone I hated to see Monday come because I enjoyed being home so much!! It also sounds like your son does better when he is not at home!!! I think this is not unusual for young adults. At home they revert to their childish behaviors and think that somehow they can treat their parents badly with no consequences... really taking advantage of our love!!! Out in the world they learn quickly they cannot do that. I don't think your son will get the help he definitely needs while he is still living at home and doesn't have to do it. It is hard to find shelters for single men... but when I was looking last week salvation army looks like they have some good options. TL [/QUOTE]
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