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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 227429" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>I don't know how old your son is . in my humble opinion we can't control our kids , imposing consequences just causes power struggles , let the law take care of that. All we can do is try to foster a good relationship , help the child find a mentor or other positive young people and we nurturing ourselves. It is not easy, the starting point is just to talk , you listen and him talk , about anything , let him feel understood , focus on his concerns - why he wants things, what's up and then talk about yourself , what makes you happy, sad , frustrated , how you nurture yourself , your needs as a person. Maybe start over a treat , talk to him like you would to your 25 yo neighbours kid</p><p></p><p>check out the work by Byron katie </p><p><a href="http://www.thework.com/index.asp" target="_blank">http://www.thework.com/index.asp</a></p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 227429, member: 10"] Hi, I don't know how old your son is . in my humble opinion we can't control our kids , imposing consequences just causes power struggles , let the law take care of that. All we can do is try to foster a good relationship , help the child find a mentor or other positive young people and we nurturing ourselves. It is not easy, the starting point is just to talk , you listen and him talk , about anything , let him feel understood , focus on his concerns - why he wants things, what's up and then talk about yourself , what makes you happy, sad , frustrated , how you nurture yourself , your needs as a person. Maybe start over a treat , talk to him like you would to your 25 yo neighbours kid check out the work by Byron katie [url]http://www.thework.com/index.asp[/url] Allan [/QUOTE]
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