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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 317039" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>CIV,,,,,</p><p></p><p>Forgive me for asking - but what's wrong with ANYTHING that you said? </p><p></p><p>Don't beat yourself up over it. I think you are very factual and all the pro-active love in the world can't help a child like the one that will surely be born to parents who already knowingly have strikes against them but just have children out of selfish motivations. </p><p></p><p>Then there is the issue with the doctor that says "If you want another child you had better." Who in the blue blazes is he? Moron of the year MD? Ugh. </p><p></p><p>I further reinforce your attitude with your statement - "they couldn't even care for a dog and had to give it back. and Who gets stuck in the middle taking care of their child now?" That's just nuts. So she gets pregnant on purpose and YOU feel a twinge of guilt? </p><p></p><p>nah - I think what you're feeling is a blast of smarts. There I said that too. However, not with an iota of remorse. </p><p></p><p>Maybe now is the perfect time to stand up and say "If you have plans for another child - that's your business, but if you have plans on me watching TWO of your children you had better start looking for a nanny right now because I'm not going to be available except on MY terms and MY time." and lay that foundation NOW. <u><strong>THen stick to it. </strong></u></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 317039, member: 4964"] CIV,,,,, Forgive me for asking - but what's wrong with ANYTHING that you said? Don't beat yourself up over it. I think you are very factual and all the pro-active love in the world can't help a child like the one that will surely be born to parents who already knowingly have strikes against them but just have children out of selfish motivations. Then there is the issue with the doctor that says "If you want another child you had better." Who in the blue blazes is he? Moron of the year MD? Ugh. I further reinforce your attitude with your statement - "they couldn't even care for a dog and had to give it back. and Who gets stuck in the middle taking care of their child now?" That's just nuts. So she gets pregnant on purpose and YOU feel a twinge of guilt? nah - I think what you're feeling is a blast of smarts. There I said that too. However, not with an iota of remorse. Maybe now is the perfect time to stand up and say "If you have plans for another child - that's your business, but if you have plans on me watching TWO of your children you had better start looking for a nanny right now because I'm not going to be available except on MY terms and MY time." and lay that foundation NOW. [U][B]THen stick to it. [/B][/U] [/QUOTE]
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