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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 689183" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>See, I told you that your son's apparent lack of care about you wasn't actually about you. That he does love you, and he doesn't take particular enjoyment from causing you pain. That is all just incidental. That doesn't make it acceptable, of course, but there is a distinction to be made.</p><p></p><p>He also sounds receptive about your offer. He is trying to squirrel out of the drug testing part, but that's to be expected. I don't know if I have mentioned this, but both my aunt and uncle are RN's. Right now, my uncle does after hour drug testing for Concentra. When somebody is injured on a job after business hours, they require a clean UA before paying out for medical costs, and the like. So he ALWAYS has tons of unused UA kits, and he certainly knew how to use them. When my aunt first suggested I submit to the tests, I was not receptive. Even though I was actually clean, and had been for some time. I had no plans to relapse, and I wasn't really sure why I was so concerned about the idea, but I was. I think it was just difficult to accept that the option to use wasn't really there, regardless of whether I wanted it, or not. I am glad it happened, though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 689183, member: 20267"] See, I told you that your son's apparent lack of care about you wasn't actually about you. That he does love you, and he doesn't take particular enjoyment from causing you pain. That is all just incidental. That doesn't make it acceptable, of course, but there is a distinction to be made. He also sounds receptive about your offer. He is trying to squirrel out of the drug testing part, but that's to be expected. I don't know if I have mentioned this, but both my aunt and uncle are RN's. Right now, my uncle does after hour drug testing for Concentra. When somebody is injured on a job after business hours, they require a clean UA before paying out for medical costs, and the like. So he ALWAYS has tons of unused UA kits, and he certainly knew how to use them. When my aunt first suggested I submit to the tests, I was not receptive. Even though I was actually clean, and had been for some time. I had no plans to relapse, and I wasn't really sure why I was so concerned about the idea, but I was. I think it was just difficult to accept that the option to use wasn't really there, regardless of whether I wanted it, or not. I am glad it happened, though. [/QUOTE]
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