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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 501100"><p>Sig,</p><p></p><p>I think searching his room, calling the police will create more drama and angst... and in the end might not do any good. Good chance he is involved in more than pot... but in the end knowing what doesn't matter that much. You know he has a drug problem and I think you also know that you don't really know the extent of it.. If he is dealing etc. eventually he will probably get caught all on his own. </p><p></p><p>I do think he needs to be out... and I don't think you should give him the rent money.... although I suppose if you paid the landlord the backrent directly (like you were going to do) just to get him out I could understand that. Tell your son that is it... no more under any circumstances. I would also tell your son that there is no way he can live at home again until he has chosen to get some help and go to rehab. He won't agree now but at least then you have made it clear the condition.</p><p></p><p>I wouldn't say never about anything because you don't know what will happen and you do want to leave doors open for when he is ready to get help.</p><p></p><p>If he refused to leave then I would call the police to have them help you get him out.</p><p></p><p>Hugs I know this will be a tough day for you.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 501100"] Sig, I think searching his room, calling the police will create more drama and angst... and in the end might not do any good. Good chance he is involved in more than pot... but in the end knowing what doesn't matter that much. You know he has a drug problem and I think you also know that you don't really know the extent of it.. If he is dealing etc. eventually he will probably get caught all on his own. I do think he needs to be out... and I don't think you should give him the rent money.... although I suppose if you paid the landlord the backrent directly (like you were going to do) just to get him out I could understand that. Tell your son that is it... no more under any circumstances. I would also tell your son that there is no way he can live at home again until he has chosen to get some help and go to rehab. He won't agree now but at least then you have made it clear the condition. I wouldn't say never about anything because you don't know what will happen and you do want to leave doors open for when he is ready to get help. If he refused to leave then I would call the police to have them help you get him out. Hugs I know this will be a tough day for you. TL [/QUOTE]
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