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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 501123" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>I also think that by offering him the rent you have dismissed any legal problems of kicking him out without eviction. He wants to leave and is doing so willingly if he gets the money. You are not kicking him out, you are giving him the rules by which he has to live by under your house and that is perfectly legal. He is the one who decided he can't do that.</p><p></p><p>My biggest worry is that he will wake up and the drugs will have worn off and he will act more compliant and you will be going through this again later tonight. I think it's important that he leave today and if you can accomplish that without a fight that will be good. Once he leaves you are not required to let him back in.</p><p></p><p>Kathy while I can't say what the legal requirements are in Sig's state I can tell you what the police have told us generically, that if they leave on their own you do not have to let them back. And if you are threatened they will make him leave if only for a few days cooling off period and they can start the eviction work then, but I dont think it will come to that because he wants to leave now and will do so on his own. I'm sorry the police didn;t help you more if difficult child threatened to kill you. Our police were far more helpful to us even when difficult child was a minor. They often asked her if she wanted them to take her in to the station or if she wanted to follow our rules. There is the unruly child law that they could use on him.</p><p></p><p>And of course she could tell them she thinks there are drugs in his room and then he is in a bit of trouble when they search. </p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 501123, member: 59"] I also think that by offering him the rent you have dismissed any legal problems of kicking him out without eviction. He wants to leave and is doing so willingly if he gets the money. You are not kicking him out, you are giving him the rules by which he has to live by under your house and that is perfectly legal. He is the one who decided he can't do that. My biggest worry is that he will wake up and the drugs will have worn off and he will act more compliant and you will be going through this again later tonight. I think it's important that he leave today and if you can accomplish that without a fight that will be good. Once he leaves you are not required to let him back in. Kathy while I can't say what the legal requirements are in Sig's state I can tell you what the police have told us generically, that if they leave on their own you do not have to let them back. And if you are threatened they will make him leave if only for a few days cooling off period and they can start the eviction work then, but I dont think it will come to that because he wants to leave now and will do so on his own. I'm sorry the police didn;t help you more if difficult child threatened to kill you. Our police were far more helpful to us even when difficult child was a minor. They often asked her if she wanted them to take her in to the station or if she wanted to follow our rules. There is the unruly child law that they could use on him. And of course she could tell them she thinks there are drugs in his room and then he is in a bit of trouble when they search. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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