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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 512260" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Sometimes I think I am totally crazy! I heart goes out to any parent going through this nightmare. A friend of mine is really into spirituality and she says we agreed to this path before we were born, and we have lessons to learn from it.</p><p><em><strong>THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL I AGREED TO THIS!</strong></em></p><p><em><strong></strong></em>and the lesson learned was stop with the first child. My now 33yo has put me through hell, I thought I was finally able to say he is doing so much better and he started all over again. He always picks difficult children for relationships and they all want to be supported. NO THANKS! But this last one was the worse.</p><p>I have no clue where he is, but I do know he is emailing me for money NO THANKS!</p><p>The sad truth is they will bleed you dry and not think twice about it. I have been in a lot of counseling and it does help. One counselor did mention detachment and I wish I had known more about it then. I was also a single parent with an abusive spouse, looking back I know the ex used drugs, but I was too inexperinced to realize it then.</p><p>Many in my family and friends are supporting dead beat adult kids, I refuse too. They would also be upset beacuse I was not recusing him. </p><p>Stay strong and look out for yourself!</p><p>[</p><p>QUOTE=AlabamaGirl;512114]</p><p>I do not know how those of you who have done this for years haven't gone totally crazy.</p></blockquote><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 512260, member: 13558"] Sometimes I think I am totally crazy! I heart goes out to any parent going through this nightmare. A friend of mine is really into spirituality and she says we agreed to this path before we were born, and we have lessons to learn from it. [I][B]THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL I AGREED TO THIS! [/B][/I]and the lesson learned was stop with the first child. My now 33yo has put me through hell, I thought I was finally able to say he is doing so much better and he started all over again. He always picks difficult children for relationships and they all want to be supported. NO THANKS! But this last one was the worse. I have no clue where he is, but I do know he is emailing me for money NO THANKS! The sad truth is they will bleed you dry and not think twice about it. I have been in a lot of counseling and it does help. One counselor did mention detachment and I wish I had known more about it then. I was also a single parent with an abusive spouse, looking back I know the ex used drugs, but I was too inexperinced to realize it then. Many in my family and friends are supporting dead beat adult kids, I refuse too. They would also be upset beacuse I was not recusing him. Stay strong and look out for yourself! [ QUOTE=AlabamaGirl;512114] I do not know how those of you who have done this for years haven't gone totally crazy.[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE]
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