Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
Family of Origin
Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 658098" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>SWOT I never wrote I would disown my son, never once in my life thought it, wanted it, nor will I ever want it. Nor did I ever express anything like that. </p><p></p><p>One day I will die. Sooner or later. When that happens my son will need to deal with it. But dying will not be volitional on my part, at least I hope not.</p><p></p><p>The word disown would never ever come into my head. Nor would I ever say them to my son or think them in my own.</p><p></p><p>Those words SWOT came from your head, your experience, not mine. Next time, ask me if something troubles you. And I will explain and clarify. Let me repeat, if I was not clear enough to be understood, ask me SWOT, please. </p><p></p><p>If you phrase your concern as a question, there is the possibility of learning. To judge somebody whether it was meant as that or not, based upon your own triggers, your own feelings, your own trauma, acts to limit your growth too. </p><p></p><p>We then are reacting from fear rather than opening to possibility and growth, I believe. We then are re-enacting the same trauma from which we flee.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes the steps we take as parents are not those that we ever believe we will have to take. There is vulnerability there, SWOT. And doubt. With me, please, tread more carefully. Or, if you choose not to SWOT, I would prefer that you do not post to my threads or comment on my postings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 658098, member: 18958"] SWOT I never wrote I would disown my son, never once in my life thought it, wanted it, nor will I ever want it. Nor did I ever express anything like that. One day I will die. Sooner or later. When that happens my son will need to deal with it. But dying will not be volitional on my part, at least I hope not. The word disown would never ever come into my head. Nor would I ever say them to my son or think them in my own. Those words SWOT came from your head, your experience, not mine. Next time, ask me if something troubles you. And I will explain and clarify. Let me repeat, if I was not clear enough to be understood, ask me SWOT, please. If you phrase your concern as a question, there is the possibility of learning. To judge somebody whether it was meant as that or not, based upon your own triggers, your own feelings, your own trauma, acts to limit your growth too. We then are reacting from fear rather than opening to possibility and growth, I believe. We then are re-enacting the same trauma from which we flee. Sometimes the steps we take as parents are not those that we ever believe we will have to take. There is vulnerability there, SWOT. And doubt. With me, please, tread more carefully. Or, if you choose not to SWOT, I would prefer that you do not post to my threads or comment on my postings. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
Family of Origin
Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
Top