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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 658444" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>SWOT, not sure how to say this without it sounding weird or even stalkerish, but please remember that nothing in internet is very anonymous, not this board at least. And you have posted so much here during the years, that if someone would want to, they would learn really a lot about you.</p><p></p><p>I live other side of the world from you and I still know so much identifying information about you. I admit that I have better memory for trivia than most people, but it is everything here on this page to read for anyone. I know your and your husband's real names, I know real names of at least two of your kids. I have seen pictures of you, your husband and three of your kids. I think I also know a real first-name of your grandson. I know where you live, I know the name of the town your kid goes to college and type of school she is in. I know the sport she plays. It would be very easy to find her online based on that information. I know the name of the book you have published under the pseudonym. I know lot about your health and life history, your former employers etc. And of course I know about struggles your kids have gone through. That is really a lot of information for a total stranger.</p><p></p><p>And if I weren't a stranger but for example someone you would had gone school with, I would also know who your siblings are by name. And I have to say I have way too much information about their health histories, relationship histories, their kids, their occupations etc. considering that they haven't to my knowledge told any of that here themselves.</p><p></p><p>It is of course your right to tell about your life and your life history as much as you want, and I well understand it can be healing to you, but let's face it: Your siblings health conditions as an adult, their relationship situations etc. are not your life history, it's theirs. It is not really relevant to your life or well being considering you are not in contact with them and certainly are not responsible for them. If they want to share it here, they can sign up and do so. Otherwise I find it slightly uncomfortable I know so much about all that.</p><p></p><p>I don't mean any offence, but maybe it would help you to find peace not to follow the board she writes at and not to be so occupied on what they are doing with their lives right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 658444, member: 14557"] SWOT, not sure how to say this without it sounding weird or even stalkerish, but please remember that nothing in internet is very anonymous, not this board at least. And you have posted so much here during the years, that if someone would want to, they would learn really a lot about you. I live other side of the world from you and I still know so much identifying information about you. I admit that I have better memory for trivia than most people, but it is everything here on this page to read for anyone. I know your and your husband's real names, I know real names of at least two of your kids. I have seen pictures of you, your husband and three of your kids. I think I also know a real first-name of your grandson. I know where you live, I know the name of the town your kid goes to college and type of school she is in. I know the sport she plays. It would be very easy to find her online based on that information. I know the name of the book you have published under the pseudonym. I know lot about your health and life history, your former employers etc. And of course I know about struggles your kids have gone through. That is really a lot of information for a total stranger. And if I weren't a stranger but for example someone you would had gone school with, I would also know who your siblings are by name. And I have to say I have way too much information about their health histories, relationship histories, their kids, their occupations etc. considering that they haven't to my knowledge told any of that here themselves. It is of course your right to tell about your life and your life history as much as you want, and I well understand it can be healing to you, but let's face it: Your siblings health conditions as an adult, their relationship situations etc. are not your life history, it's theirs. It is not really relevant to your life or well being considering you are not in contact with them and certainly are not responsible for them. If they want to share it here, they can sign up and do so. Otherwise I find it slightly uncomfortable I know so much about all that. I don't mean any offence, but maybe it would help you to find peace not to follow the board she writes at and not to be so occupied on what they are doing with their lives right now. [/QUOTE]
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