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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 660597" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is concerning, SWOT.</p><p></p><p>He sounds like somebody that may have a secret life. That he has to be rigid because he fears loss of control of whatever impulses he may be suppressing.</p><p></p><p>Thank goodness that Princess is so well-balanced and sensible or you could have had a terrible problem. Imagine if she did not have such good boundaries and sense of self...and had not checked him so quickly and firmly.</p><p></p><p>Just imagine, how horrible it could have gotten.</p><p></p><p>Goneboy sounds like he needs the structure he has now. The rigid and controlling wife and the presense of a homogeneous culture, strict community that does not tolerate deviation and difference. He needs that control. He may lack it himself. And there may be scary things buried beneath the surface.</p><p></p><p>Looking at it this way, it may be a blessing that he did not fully trust or open up in your family. You or anybody could not have dealt with what lurked below. There are birth children who hide from their family their true natures and feelings. And then, one day, they surprise everybody and do something that nobody expected or ever could expect.</p><p></p><p>I for one am grateful that <em>that</em> did not happen. </p><p></p><p>SWOT, Maybe Romy has reactive attachment disorder. And that is why he is peeing and pooping all over the house, whenever he gets a chance.. A joke. I just read your post on Tamlkt's thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 660597, member: 18958"] This is concerning, SWOT. He sounds like somebody that may have a secret life. That he has to be rigid because he fears loss of control of whatever impulses he may be suppressing. Thank goodness that Princess is so well-balanced and sensible or you could have had a terrible problem. Imagine if she did not have such good boundaries and sense of self...and had not checked him so quickly and firmly. Just imagine, how horrible it could have gotten. Goneboy sounds like he needs the structure he has now. The rigid and controlling wife and the presense of a homogeneous culture, strict community that does not tolerate deviation and difference. He needs that control. He may lack it himself. And there may be scary things buried beneath the surface. Looking at it this way, it may be a blessing that he did not fully trust or open up in your family. You or anybody could not have dealt with what lurked below. There are birth children who hide from their family their true natures and feelings. And then, one day, they surprise everybody and do something that nobody expected or ever could expect. I for one am grateful that [I]that[/I] did not happen. SWOT, Maybe Romy has reactive attachment disorder. And that is why he is peeing and pooping all over the house, whenever he gets a chance.. A joke. I just read your post on Tamlkt's thread. [/QUOTE]
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