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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 660948" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I love reading our posts. True things are harder things to say. I appreciate, Copa.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>We aren't certain how to think about this either, SWOT. Really, there isn't anything we can do for her but encourage and love her and tell her true things and wish her well. She will be leaving with the kids this week. </p><p></p><p>Copa, we did intend to ask her to leave. We did the thing we are forever telling one another not to do ~ when she left that night, we catastrophized and told ourselves we knew the end of the story; we were miserable and angry and hurt disbelieving and etc. But when daughter came home that night, she was like a different person. So, we waited. The next morning, she was still fine. Yesterday was great. Last night was great. We are doing the best we know, and are taking things one little portion of time at a time. It feels right to believe and to celebrate just being together while we can and let the rest go since there isn't a thing in the world we can do about any of it.</p><p></p><p>It is such a nice feeling to come here in the morning and see your responses. Thanks, you two. Lioness, welcome!</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 660948, member: 17461"] I love reading our posts. True things are harder things to say. I appreciate, Copa. We aren't certain how to think about this either, SWOT. Really, there isn't anything we can do for her but encourage and love her and tell her true things and wish her well. She will be leaving with the kids this week. Copa, we did intend to ask her to leave. We did the thing we are forever telling one another not to do ~ when she left that night, we catastrophized and told ourselves we knew the end of the story; we were miserable and angry and hurt disbelieving and etc. But when daughter came home that night, she was like a different person. So, we waited. The next morning, she was still fine. Yesterday was great. Last night was great. We are doing the best we know, and are taking things one little portion of time at a time. It feels right to believe and to celebrate just being together while we can and let the rest go since there isn't a thing in the world we can do about any of it. It is such a nice feeling to come here in the morning and see your responses. Thanks, you two. Lioness, welcome! :hugs: Cedar [/QUOTE]
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