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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 662347" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>It is not a question of being hard on him, SWOT. It is more like YUCK. I agree with Belle/AUP, that it could be what they call a reaction formation. He could be unconsciously extremely angry and hostile to your dead mother, and hiding it from himself and others through the appearance of excessive, syrupy love.</p><p>Very, very foolhardy. Very risky. Very sad. Very odd. It sounds like you are the together and strong one, of the bunch, SWOT. I would try hard to not think of this at all. Because how could it not be troubling? Worst case, there may be children involved. Best case, your brother is a sad person flirting with inappropriate relationships.</p><p>The thing is you do not know how important you are to him, really. They hide it. Especially from themselves.</p><p>Yes, I will sure try. I have no idea where he is. He has gone between 3 counties over the past 8 months or so. He only comes to my county when there is no alternative in the other two.</p><p></p><p>The consensus is that I will hear from him soon. I hope so. Thank you for your support, everybody.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 662347, member: 18958"] It is not a question of being hard on him, SWOT. It is more like YUCK. I agree with Belle/AUP, that it could be what they call a reaction formation. He could be unconsciously extremely angry and hostile to your dead mother, and hiding it from himself and others through the appearance of excessive, syrupy love. Very, very foolhardy. Very risky. Very sad. Very odd. It sounds like you are the together and strong one, of the bunch, SWOT. I would try hard to not think of this at all. Because how could it not be troubling? Worst case, there may be children involved. Best case, your brother is a sad person flirting with inappropriate relationships. The thing is you do not know how important you are to him, really. They hide it. Especially from themselves. Yes, I will sure try. I have no idea where he is. He has gone between 3 counties over the past 8 months or so. He only comes to my county when there is no alternative in the other two. The consensus is that I will hear from him soon. I hope so. Thank you for your support, everybody. COPA [/QUOTE]
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