mama2three
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Hi,
I'm Ashlee I am a 25 yo mom to three wonderful kids. DS1 is 5, daughter just turned 3 on April 29th, and DS2 is 1. Me and their father my SO are together all living in the same house but, not married. We have such an awesome family and I consider myself completely blessed beyond words.
My DS1 is incredibly smart he is in Kdg. reading at a first grade level. He is a really good kid. Never really any behavior issues except for and occasional whine or back talk. My DS2 is very sweet and very inquistive being he is 1.
Now to daughter, She is my Princess my only girl who I love so much. since she was about i'd say like 20 months, I started noticing behavior issues, usual terrible twos so I thought. Then DS2 came along right before she turned 2 so I assumed this was jealousy of the new baby and what-not. But, Nothing has improved about her behavior only worsening. I'm really begining to worry. She will explode at the drop of a hat. What I mean when I say expolde is she will scream in your face when she doesn't get her way, She slaps, bites, punches, kicks, spits, bites herself, pulls her own hair, and she is has just recently started hiding food in odd places, eg. under the couch behind a chair in her room. Then she will ask for another snack and then crumble it into peices (smash or throw depending on the snack) after telling her no several times. She is mean to her siblings she hits, slaps, pinches them when i'm not looking. Has had melt downs in public but not very much.
As I am sitting here typing this all out i am in tears. This is not my baby girl my princess. She can be so sweet and loving. She will give you the best hug you ever had in your life. When she gets kisses she make sure to rub them in. I love her so darn much. But, i am grasping here. Her behavior is out of control. Everyone keeps telling me "she will grow out of it" "she is just being a kid" this is not normal to me atleast. I mentioned ADD/ADHD to the doctor once and she quickly dismissed me looking angry I even mentioned it. My half brother has ADD/ADHD and what I think is undiagnosed Bi-Polar.
Tell me i'm not crazy. I feel like a bad parent for even thinking something is wrong with my baby girl .
Help,
ANY ADVICE AT ALL IS WELCOME!
Thanks,
Ashlee
I'm Ashlee I am a 25 yo mom to three wonderful kids. DS1 is 5, daughter just turned 3 on April 29th, and DS2 is 1. Me and their father my SO are together all living in the same house but, not married. We have such an awesome family and I consider myself completely blessed beyond words.
My DS1 is incredibly smart he is in Kdg. reading at a first grade level. He is a really good kid. Never really any behavior issues except for and occasional whine or back talk. My DS2 is very sweet and very inquistive being he is 1.
Now to daughter, She is my Princess my only girl who I love so much. since she was about i'd say like 20 months, I started noticing behavior issues, usual terrible twos so I thought. Then DS2 came along right before she turned 2 so I assumed this was jealousy of the new baby and what-not. But, Nothing has improved about her behavior only worsening. I'm really begining to worry. She will explode at the drop of a hat. What I mean when I say expolde is she will scream in your face when she doesn't get her way, She slaps, bites, punches, kicks, spits, bites herself, pulls her own hair, and she is has just recently started hiding food in odd places, eg. under the couch behind a chair in her room. Then she will ask for another snack and then crumble it into peices (smash or throw depending on the snack) after telling her no several times. She is mean to her siblings she hits, slaps, pinches them when i'm not looking. Has had melt downs in public but not very much.
As I am sitting here typing this all out i am in tears. This is not my baby girl my princess. She can be so sweet and loving. She will give you the best hug you ever had in your life. When she gets kisses she make sure to rub them in. I love her so darn much. But, i am grasping here. Her behavior is out of control. Everyone keeps telling me "she will grow out of it" "she is just being a kid" this is not normal to me atleast. I mentioned ADD/ADHD to the doctor once and she quickly dismissed me looking angry I even mentioned it. My half brother has ADD/ADHD and what I think is undiagnosed Bi-Polar.
Tell me i'm not crazy. I feel like a bad parent for even thinking something is wrong with my baby girl .
Help,
ANY ADVICE AT ALL IS WELCOME!
Thanks,
Ashlee