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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 523425" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm a little "off" this week so am not positive if I welcomed you or not. I don't think so because when I read your post I recall thinking this is like the old V8 Commercial...flat handed slap to my own forehead. Sigh. You are one of at least three young Moms who have posted almost identical words. All married men who somehow had damaged children from their first spouse and yet didn't take positive action on their behalf, each met a lovely kind and caring younger woman and married for the second time still not facing the existing issues with the first children, each having a much loved biological new baby with wife number two and then whammo! ending up with custody of children with mental health issues from wife number one. In the other cases the 2nd wives "inherited" the responsibility for the older children, the young child, the care of the home, the preparation of the meals etc. as the husband "worked so hard to support everyone".</p><p></p><p>I suggest with genuine caring and supportive thoughts that you seek a therapist to help you analyze your situation in 2012 and your projected situation in future years. Working with a professional you can make sure that all possibilities are explored. Hope my post isn't too blunt. Sending hugs your way. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 523425, member: 35"] I'm a little "off" this week so am not positive if I welcomed you or not. I don't think so because when I read your post I recall thinking this is like the old V8 Commercial...flat handed slap to my own forehead. Sigh. You are one of at least three young Moms who have posted almost identical words. All married men who somehow had damaged children from their first spouse and yet didn't take positive action on their behalf, each met a lovely kind and caring younger woman and married for the second time still not facing the existing issues with the first children, each having a much loved biological new baby with wife number two and then whammo! ending up with custody of children with mental health issues from wife number one. In the other cases the 2nd wives "inherited" the responsibility for the older children, the young child, the care of the home, the preparation of the meals etc. as the husband "worked so hard to support everyone". I suggest with genuine caring and supportive thoughts that you seek a therapist to help you analyze your situation in 2012 and your projected situation in future years. Working with a professional you can make sure that all possibilities are explored. Hope my post isn't too blunt. Sending hugs your way. DDD [/QUOTE]
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