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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 523771" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p><u><strong>The oldest one has been having problems, mostly at school, the entire time he's been living here. I tried and tried to get my husband to do something about it, but my husband didn't see the problems until we received a report from daycare that the child was threatening to shoot his teachers and attempted to stab a teacher in the arm. In August, he hit a pregnant teacher so hard in the stomach that she threw up. He has these "meltdowns" at daycare for not much of a reason at all, which causes him to throw items and furniture, physically assault other children, physically assault teachers, rip posters off the walls, etc. They have a difficult time getting him to calm down, but once he's calm, he's fine until the next "meltdown" happens. At home, he's constantly instigating trouble with my five-year-old by picking on him and arguing with him until my five-year-old reacts (usually through hitting), and he's quick to "tattle tell" after the reaction. He lies constantly; even if you see him do something, he'll lie to you about doing it. Just this morning he woke up at 6am, before all the other kids, and was singing loudly enough to wake me up.</strong></u></p><p> <u><strong></strong></u></p><p><u><strong>This child's behavior is ruining my marriage and my relationship with my own son. I am worried that I did the wrong thing getting married and trying to help these kids, and I am very scared.</strong></u></p><p><u>XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX That is her description of this child and what he is doing to the family.</u></p><p><u></u></p><p><u>in my opinion her reac</u>tion is normal. I think a lot of women would have walked out already, and she isn't doing that. She has absolutely no authority to get these kids into any sort of serious therapy. It's all on her husband and he isn't even seeing the problems!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 523771, member: 1550"] [U][B]The oldest one has been having problems, mostly at school, the entire time he's been living here. I tried and tried to get my husband to do something about it, but my husband didn't see the problems until we received a report from daycare that the child was threatening to shoot his teachers and attempted to stab a teacher in the arm. In August, he hit a pregnant teacher so hard in the stomach that she threw up. He has these "meltdowns" at daycare for not much of a reason at all, which causes him to throw items and furniture, physically assault other children, physically assault teachers, rip posters off the walls, etc. They have a difficult time getting him to calm down, but once he's calm, he's fine until the next "meltdown" happens. At home, he's constantly instigating trouble with my five-year-old by picking on him and arguing with him until my five-year-old reacts (usually through hitting), and he's quick to "tattle tell" after the reaction. He lies constantly; even if you see him do something, he'll lie to you about doing it. Just this morning he woke up at 6am, before all the other kids, and was singing loudly enough to wake me up. This child's behavior is ruining my marriage and my relationship with my own son. I am worried that I did the wrong thing getting married and trying to help these kids, and I am very scared.[/B] XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX That is her description of this child and what he is doing to the family. in my opinion her reac[/U]tion is normal. I think a lot of women would have walked out already, and she isn't doing that. She has absolutely no authority to get these kids into any sort of serious therapy. It's all on her husband and he isn't even seeing the problems! [/QUOTE]
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