difficult child (14/15 in May) is on high dose Abilify 37 1/2 mg & Tenex 2 1/2 mg daily (at night). He seems to tolerate it fine with no side effects. Most difficult children or adults are not on this high dose. It makes me worry though; however, since no side effects, doctor. thinks it's not a problem. It is what works for him, though it causes me concern. I will NOT be paying for this after he is off my medical plan (i think it is 21 for "disabled" dependant/kids"?). At some point I assume he will get medicaid? I don't know yet how that works. It feels as I get older (I'm now 49) I worry more and more, & get more anxious & stressed as the years go by. I don't know if I will ever be able to retire as it is. I'm mostly concerned with difficult child though, not so much for myself.