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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 111857" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Yikes. If he molested the older one, I'd be suspicious that he molested the younger one too. Good heavens, no matter how the child feels about Dad I wouldn't allow him alone with her for two hours or two minutes! Why isn't he in jail???</p><p>Has the nine year old ever been evaluated? This is kind of sick but sometimes kids feel close to adults who sexually abuse them, mistaking that for love. Sounds like you have your hands full. What does your girlfriend say?</p><p>Also, as I've said in other threads, many kids don't like to see their parents with men other than Dad, no matter how nice you are and how rotten HE is. Kids love Dad no matter what, but this one sounds potentially dangerous...kids are often not forthcoming about being abused. Mine were abused by an older foster child and never told me. We had to figure it out, even though we had that "you can tell us if anyone touches you in a bad way because we'll believe YOU" talk. Why would he molest the older kids and not the nine year old? The poor kid needs therapy badly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 111857, member: 1550"] Yikes. If he molested the older one, I'd be suspicious that he molested the younger one too. Good heavens, no matter how the child feels about Dad I wouldn't allow him alone with her for two hours or two minutes! Why isn't he in jail??? Has the nine year old ever been evaluated? This is kind of sick but sometimes kids feel close to adults who sexually abuse them, mistaking that for love. Sounds like you have your hands full. What does your girlfriend say? Also, as I've said in other threads, many kids don't like to see their parents with men other than Dad, no matter how nice you are and how rotten HE is. Kids love Dad no matter what, but this one sounds potentially dangerous...kids are often not forthcoming about being abused. Mine were abused by an older foster child and never told me. We had to figure it out, even though we had that "you can tell us if anyone touches you in a bad way because we'll believe YOU" talk. Why would he molest the older kids and not the nine year old? The poor kid needs therapy badly. [/QUOTE]
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