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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 112364" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>I apologize. I read "authorities", but did not read "police" or "jail". </p><p></p><p>Oookay. To further clarify, these kids are all girls. None are yours. The toad is the father of the youngest only? And he molested the older girls? And is going for visitation of the younger one...unsupervised visitation? He really is a toad.</p><p></p><p>I give you big ups, you have a huge role to play in this. It has been said here a lot of times, but you will be the target of "I hate you" for a long time. No matter what you do. Just because of the nature of the beast. The girl is only 9, and if she was abused too, there is that bridge to cross. If she was NOT abused, she will first not understand why there is suddenly this barrier when there never used to be, and if/when the time comes to tell her, she may not believe you. </p><p></p><p>Talk to your g/f about some free counseling in the meantime. Free does not mean bad or sub-standard. All 3 girls could use this, and it sure would not hurt for a family counselor to see all 5 of you as well. This is a very difficult thing to process. I am so very sorry that these girls had to go through this. </p><p></p><p>And this guy really is a toad. Beat of luck in the court proceedings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 112364, member: 3647"] I apologize. I read "authorities", but did not read "police" or "jail". Oookay. To further clarify, these kids are all girls. None are yours. The toad is the father of the youngest only? And he molested the older girls? And is going for visitation of the younger one...unsupervised visitation? He really is a toad. I give you big ups, you have a huge role to play in this. It has been said here a lot of times, but you will be the target of "I hate you" for a long time. No matter what you do. Just because of the nature of the beast. The girl is only 9, and if she was abused too, there is that bridge to cross. If she was NOT abused, she will first not understand why there is suddenly this barrier when there never used to be, and if/when the time comes to tell her, she may not believe you. Talk to your g/f about some free counseling in the meantime. Free does not mean bad or sub-standard. All 3 girls could use this, and it sure would not hurt for a family counselor to see all 5 of you as well. This is a very difficult thing to process. I am so very sorry that these girls had to go through this. And this guy really is a toad. Beat of luck in the court proceedings. [/QUOTE]
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