ok difficult child II is always making friends, some stick some don't, but i always try and maintain lines of communication with the parents. Well one Mom just called me, and asked me to borrow $100! I do not know here formally, I mean she garduated 2 years below me, but ummmmm, it's not like were best of friends or anything. I guess it caught me off guard, her asking, and I kinda fibbed and said I am tight right now with funds. I feel bad now (this is one of my weak areas) because I am not unkind and I go out of my way to help others, if I knew she were struggling, I'd bring over groceries or pay her electric bill b4 I would hand over $100! opinions?