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<blockquote data-quote="Matty's Mummy" data-source="post: 560139" data-attributes="member: 5222"><p><span style="font-size: 10px">sorry this is for the 7 now 8 year old, we are in Australia 3 hours inland from the city , we see a Occupational Therapist (OT) my son has resisted all her efforts so I have asked her to not give up an djust spend the hour letting him talk about whatever he wants.</span></p><p> <span style="font-size: 10px">there is no other Occupational Therapist (OT) we drive 3 hours in and out for her. as soon as she meantions feelings or anything he melts down and runs away. this has happened with another Occupational Therapist (OT) who ended up after 6 visits saying she cant work with him and a Psychology has told us the same that she cant help him after he ran out the door, she had said to him that 'if he needs to talk about his dreams he could talk to her" this was after I had said he cant talk to anyone about his dreams becaus ehe was so scared. she really damaged my sons trust with me. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span><span style="font-size: 12px"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"></span><span style="font-size: 10px"> </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span><span style="font-size: 10px">whatamess thank you, I have no idea why i didnt' think of that, we have had to take photo's of other things in the past, like broken TV's and that has worked. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">off to do that now. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">recoveringenabler, Janet and wecometowitsend, thanks for your message, I forgot abotu weekends I used to know this. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px">susiestar thanks so much for all of that. we have seen that happen with our son in the past when we took all </span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">electronic games away. he started to enjoy life again. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">this is the plan for today, to get rid of all the electronics and start the weening. it was hard last time we kept them away for 6mths and had a totally different child. and why we ever pull them out again I dont know. I know the pressure from family thing all to well, they do think it's cruel and dont see this in their children or children they are around so they cant understand the intense level of anxiety the game have on our son, also how it takes overhis life so much that he cant do normal everyday things. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">we are so isolated there is no help out here and moving should happen by the ed of the year, I have to make sure it happens. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I've read all your post thank so much a lot has helped an we will get done what we can today. I brought a chemistry set for him for Christmas so might pull that out to elp him transistion </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
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