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Holiday blues and trying to keep the drama at bay...
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 395073" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>If you want to call her, call her.</p><p></p><p>But I wouldn't sit around waiting. I'd do whatever it is you want to do the the holiday and enjoy yourself. If you can enjoy yourself without difficult child, odds are she'll sit up and take notice because at that age it's still all about them. She's taking your for granted right now cuz she knows you love her regardless and you will always be there no matter what. There will come the day she realizes which parent was <strong>really</strong> there for her, when it does she will be ashamed of the way she's treated you.</p><p></p><p>The holidays are different with grown kids. We do a lot of schedule shifting, especially since both my girls have other family to do seasonal activities with as well. The year we couldn't have xmas dinner on xmas Nichole and easy child thought it would devistate me. lol Nope. We did it on xmas eve and it was just as nice. And husband and I got to enjoy our first xmas in peace and quiet doing whatever we wanted. This year it's on xmas because schedules allow it. Just how it goes.</p><p></p><p>But like I said, if you want to call, call. Something may have come up........she could've been distracted. Never hurts to call. </p><p></p><p>((((Hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 395073, member: 84"] If you want to call her, call her. But I wouldn't sit around waiting. I'd do whatever it is you want to do the the holiday and enjoy yourself. If you can enjoy yourself without difficult child, odds are she'll sit up and take notice because at that age it's still all about them. She's taking your for granted right now cuz she knows you love her regardless and you will always be there no matter what. There will come the day she realizes which parent was [B]really[/B] there for her, when it does she will be ashamed of the way she's treated you. The holidays are different with grown kids. We do a lot of schedule shifting, especially since both my girls have other family to do seasonal activities with as well. The year we couldn't have xmas dinner on xmas Nichole and easy child thought it would devistate me. lol Nope. We did it on xmas eve and it was just as nice. And husband and I got to enjoy our first xmas in peace and quiet doing whatever we wanted. This year it's on xmas because schedules allow it. Just how it goes. But like I said, if you want to call, call. Something may have come up........she could've been distracted. Never hurts to call. ((((Hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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