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Homeless and facing 5 charges with my 20yr.old son
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 630309" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>It really wont matter to the judge if you are there or not. If your courts are like mine, there will be a whole lot of people in the courtroom and the judge wont even know you are there. He most certainly wont want to listen to anything you have to say. At this point in his going to court also its probably only going to be him asking for a court appointment attorney then they will set another court date so you will be wasting your time. </p><p></p><p>Im assuming you bailed him out if he is not in jail now or did they just write him tickets for everything telling him to appear? </p><p></p><p>Right now its very hard for you to stop thinking of him as a child. I still think of my boys as well...my boys. They will always be my kids. But it is so needed. The only way they can grow up is if we make them. They feel so much better about themselves if mommy isnt taking care of everything for them. Think about it, how can a man feel like a man if mommy keeps washing his clothes, fixing his meals, worrying about all his problems, fixing all his problems, doing all the things grown men do. Think about how much better he will feel about himself when he is able to do everything for himself....and when he can do something for you. It happens. It wont happen if you keep babying him. Do you think he would have ever learned to walk if you never put him down and carried him everywhere? Would he have ever learned to tie his shoes if all you bought were velcro and tied them for him? What if you never took those training wheels off?</p><p></p><p>You are those training wheels right now and you have to take them off. Sure he is going to fall and scrape his knees a few times but eventually he will learn.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 630309, member: 1514"] It really wont matter to the judge if you are there or not. If your courts are like mine, there will be a whole lot of people in the courtroom and the judge wont even know you are there. He most certainly wont want to listen to anything you have to say. At this point in his going to court also its probably only going to be him asking for a court appointment attorney then they will set another court date so you will be wasting your time. Im assuming you bailed him out if he is not in jail now or did they just write him tickets for everything telling him to appear? Right now its very hard for you to stop thinking of him as a child. I still think of my boys as well...my boys. They will always be my kids. But it is so needed. The only way they can grow up is if we make them. They feel so much better about themselves if mommy isnt taking care of everything for them. Think about it, how can a man feel like a man if mommy keeps washing his clothes, fixing his meals, worrying about all his problems, fixing all his problems, doing all the things grown men do. Think about how much better he will feel about himself when he is able to do everything for himself....and when he can do something for you. It happens. It wont happen if you keep babying him. Do you think he would have ever learned to walk if you never put him down and carried him everywhere? Would he have ever learned to tie his shoes if all you bought were velcro and tied them for him? What if you never took those training wheels off? You are those training wheels right now and you have to take them off. Sure he is going to fall and scrape his knees a few times but eventually he will learn. [/QUOTE]
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