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Hopefully just a bump...in the road
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 687025" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Thank you. But then I think OMG will he ever not need all this support - which by the way he doesn't think HE needs. He still doesn't get it. I just hope and pray that this continues. His phone calls still totally stress me out. I feel the only reason he is sober is because he is THERE and has to be. He hasn't said anything I really want and NEED to hear. </p><p></p><p>I am glad I got back on here after vacation. I needed a boost of detachment parenting from you all. I still feel I need to detach even though he is being sober. If not, he can easily manipulate me. Not his dad but me. I don't want to go back "there". It was a horrible place to be. Second guessing everything.</p><p></p><p>I feel bad when I think about November and December holidays. I DO NOT want him home for either. I am not sure what will happen between now and then but I just want him to stay put and work on his "stuff". Maybe we can go there for a visit but it's very expensive that time of year.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 687025, member: 15032"] Thank you. But then I think OMG will he ever not need all this support - which by the way he doesn't think HE needs. He still doesn't get it. I just hope and pray that this continues. His phone calls still totally stress me out. I feel the only reason he is sober is because he is THERE and has to be. He hasn't said anything I really want and NEED to hear. I am glad I got back on here after vacation. I needed a boost of detachment parenting from you all. I still feel I need to detach even though he is being sober. If not, he can easily manipulate me. Not his dad but me. I don't want to go back "there". It was a horrible place to be. Second guessing everything. I feel bad when I think about November and December holidays. I DO NOT want him home for either. I am not sure what will happen between now and then but I just want him to stay put and work on his "stuff". Maybe we can go there for a visit but it's very expensive that time of year. [/QUOTE]
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