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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 373655" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Again, my hands are tied. If I take her anywhere, her mother will go completely off the deep end. Remember, this is the woman who bashed me for hours because I tested the girls reading level.</p><p> </p><p>We have a 13 year old girl with very substantial lying issues; she's been caught surfing porn repeatedly over the past 3 years; I've read her journal entries and she "just wants to be loved" by any and every boy in school; she has no self esteem and will flirt with anything with 2 legs; she has very few friends; she dresses as skimpy as possible and wears makeup that looks like it was put on by a Sharpie; she is left unattended every Tuesday from about 6am to 6-10pm at her mom's house; and...</p><p> </p><p>We have significan reason to believe she's taking condoms from our house.</p><p> </p><p>When my big boys were older teens and young adults, we kept condoms in the medicine chest, and they and their friends swiped them. That was the point. Well, we told them that's why they were there. Not to get into the permission argument, cause that wasn't the intent, it was just be safe if you're gonna.... There were probably still 30 in there this spring. They have disappeared over the course of the summer 1 or 2 at a time. They are all gone now. Aside from the fact that difficult child 1 is married and 1500 miles away, and easy child 1 is engaged and his girlfriend is on the pill....Cgfg is the only constant when they disappear.</p><p> </p><p>Its not confirmation that she's having sex. But it is saying she's thinking about it (her journal says that, too). And she could be.</p><p> </p><p>But I don't feel like there's anything I can do. If husband is responsible if she gets pregnant, then obviously I will stick my neck out a little more than I am willing to otherwise. If he's not accountable, I honestly think I will send an email to school counselor, tell her what I know, and walk away. Sorry. I know how wrong that is. But my hands are tied with this kid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 373655, member: 1848"] Again, my hands are tied. If I take her anywhere, her mother will go completely off the deep end. Remember, this is the woman who bashed me for hours because I tested the girls reading level. We have a 13 year old girl with very substantial lying issues; she's been caught surfing porn repeatedly over the past 3 years; I've read her journal entries and she "just wants to be loved" by any and every boy in school; she has no self esteem and will flirt with anything with 2 legs; she has very few friends; she dresses as skimpy as possible and wears makeup that looks like it was put on by a Sharpie; she is left unattended every Tuesday from about 6am to 6-10pm at her mom's house; and... We have significan reason to believe she's taking condoms from our house. When my big boys were older teens and young adults, we kept condoms in the medicine chest, and they and their friends swiped them. That was the point. Well, we told them that's why they were there. Not to get into the permission argument, cause that wasn't the intent, it was just be safe if you're gonna.... There were probably still 30 in there this spring. They have disappeared over the course of the summer 1 or 2 at a time. They are all gone now. Aside from the fact that difficult child 1 is married and 1500 miles away, and easy child 1 is engaged and his girlfriend is on the pill....Cgfg is the only constant when they disappear. Its not confirmation that she's having sex. But it is saying she's thinking about it (her journal says that, too). And she could be. But I don't feel like there's anything I can do. If husband is responsible if she gets pregnant, then obviously I will stick my neck out a little more than I am willing to otherwise. If he's not accountable, I honestly think I will send an email to school counselor, tell her what I know, and walk away. Sorry. I know how wrong that is. But my hands are tied with this kid. [/QUOTE]
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