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<blockquote data-quote="LauraH" data-source="post: 748218" data-attributes="member: 22877"><p>I was in a similar situation although I was renting my apartment so it was trickier. When my son was 19 or so he moved out and I was so glad to have him out of my home I took him to the rental office and we signed paperwork to get him off my lease. It didn't last long and he wanted to move back in within a couple of months. Like an idiot I said yes and that was the start of the real nightmare. After less than a week of model behavior he was back to his old tricks of lying, defiance of my rules, verbal abuse, even damaging my belongings and a couple of times a wall and a door. He was seeing someone long distance and the guy came for a weekend visit...and never left. I called the police time after time and they said they couldn't arrest him for damaging property where he lived and since I couldn't prove he broke my personal belongs (as opposed to me or someone else breaking it) they couldn't do anything there either. They also told me that they couldn't make his partner leave because he was there at my son's invitation, and since my son lived there he had a right to guests...in MY home! I went to the rental office to see if they could help me get him out and was told that since he wasn't an authorized tenant, in other words not on the lease, they would have to evict me to get him out. A few people suggested I move and not let him move with me...but I didn't have the money for that at the time. Finally I just gave them $500 to leave and made them sign a contract/agreement that they would not claim residency at my address. Had it notarized. I never had to take it to court so I don't know for sure it was a legal and binding agreement or not (I'm not very familiar with contract laws in Florida). </p><p></p><p>Are you in a position to offer them a "bribe" to move out like I had to resort to? And would they take you up on it? I totally get the mess you're in and I pray you can get the situation remedied ASAP.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LauraH, post: 748218, member: 22877"] I was in a similar situation although I was renting my apartment so it was trickier. When my son was 19 or so he moved out and I was so glad to have him out of my home I took him to the rental office and we signed paperwork to get him off my lease. It didn't last long and he wanted to move back in within a couple of months. Like an idiot I said yes and that was the start of the real nightmare. After less than a week of model behavior he was back to his old tricks of lying, defiance of my rules, verbal abuse, even damaging my belongings and a couple of times a wall and a door. He was seeing someone long distance and the guy came for a weekend visit...and never left. I called the police time after time and they said they couldn't arrest him for damaging property where he lived and since I couldn't prove he broke my personal belongs (as opposed to me or someone else breaking it) they couldn't do anything there either. They also told me that they couldn't make his partner leave because he was there at my son's invitation, and since my son lived there he had a right to guests...in MY home! I went to the rental office to see if they could help me get him out and was told that since he wasn't an authorized tenant, in other words not on the lease, they would have to evict me to get him out. A few people suggested I move and not let him move with me...but I didn't have the money for that at the time. Finally I just gave them $500 to leave and made them sign a contract/agreement that they would not claim residency at my address. Had it notarized. I never had to take it to court so I don't know for sure it was a legal and binding agreement or not (I'm not very familiar with contract laws in Florida). Are you in a position to offer them a "bribe" to move out like I had to resort to? And would they take you up on it? I totally get the mess you're in and I pray you can get the situation remedied ASAP. [/QUOTE]
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