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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 124743" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I'm not really having problems coming up with the rules...they are pretty much ones that have been in place forever. I'm just not too sure of myself when it comes to the consequences. Take the warning system for example. I keep finding myself questioning if the 3 warnings in 6 months is too lenient, too strict or a reasonable expectation. I've been talking to husband for a while now in a real big and bad way. (If he keeps doing this....he's OUT) Now that it's come time to put it down in black and white, I'm a bit hesitant about what's reasonable.</p><p></p><p>On a slight side note...difficult child's counselor sat in on part of my meeting with the CM. He flat out told me that difficult child will be kicked out. While he's wanting to do what he (difficult child) wants, he also knows that he is in no way prepared for the real world. But at the same time, he doesn't want anything to do with the rules that all of us follow. He told me that it's going to be very difficult for husband and I but that we have to do it. Logically I know all of this. I've been saying it for months. But to actually hear someone else say it? <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sad.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sad:" title="sad :sad:" data-shortname=":sad:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 124743, member: 2459"] I'm not really having problems coming up with the rules...they are pretty much ones that have been in place forever. I'm just not too sure of myself when it comes to the consequences. Take the warning system for example. I keep finding myself questioning if the 3 warnings in 6 months is too lenient, too strict or a reasonable expectation. I've been talking to husband for a while now in a real big and bad way. (If he keeps doing this....he's OUT) Now that it's come time to put it down in black and white, I'm a bit hesitant about what's reasonable. On a slight side note...difficult child's counselor sat in on part of my meeting with the CM. He flat out told me that difficult child will be kicked out. While he's wanting to do what he (difficult child) wants, he also knows that he is in no way prepared for the real world. But at the same time, he doesn't want anything to do with the rules that all of us follow. He told me that it's going to be very difficult for husband and I but that we have to do it. Logically I know all of this. I've been saying it for months. But to actually hear someone else say it? :sad: [/QUOTE]
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