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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 674413" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi New Leaf,</p><p></p><p>I am just now getting caught up on this. I'm so sorry for what you are going through.</p><p></p><p>I think you are doing remarkably well in dealing with it. You are doing the best you can with a very difficult situation.</p><p></p><p>Loving our children should be so easy, we should feel joy at the thought of them but when they choose to live a lifestyle that keeps them in the muck and mire that joy escapes us.</p><p></p><p>As long as they are using we cannot and should not trust anything they tell us.</p><p></p><p>I too prefer not seeing my son. I used to think I was a horrible person for feeling this way but I slowly came to realize it's more about protecting myself and my emotional well being. I matter, you matter, all of us warrior parents matter. It's okay to want to have a life free of the drama and chaos our difficult adult children surround themselves with.</p><p></p><p>I hope you are doing better today. I'm glad your hubby is home and on the mend.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you sweet lady......................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 674413, member: 18516"] Hi New Leaf, I am just now getting caught up on this. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I think you are doing remarkably well in dealing with it. You are doing the best you can with a very difficult situation. Loving our children should be so easy, we should feel joy at the thought of them but when they choose to live a lifestyle that keeps them in the muck and mire that joy escapes us. As long as they are using we cannot and should not trust anything they tell us. I too prefer not seeing my son. I used to think I was a horrible person for feeling this way but I slowly came to realize it's more about protecting myself and my emotional well being. I matter, you matter, all of us warrior parents matter. It's okay to want to have a life free of the drama and chaos our difficult adult children surround themselves with. I hope you are doing better today. I'm glad your hubby is home and on the mend. ((HUGS)) to you sweet lady...................... [/QUOTE]
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