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"How can I screw my life up today?"
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 660235" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Lil you son is learning that there is no one who will put up with an adult who doesn't work and doesn't take responsibility for very long. </p><p></p><p>Can you step back from this and just let whatever happens, happen? The grandparents are doing just fine. The girlfriends family has spoken. </p><p></p><p>Can you go silent and wait? He is away from you now. Feel the blessed relief of it and release him to whatever happens next. </p><p></p><p>Physical separation can be such a gift with dcs if we will claim it. It is a time for us but continuing to engage robs us of that gift. </p><p></p><p>I know it is very hard to do. You are walking the path---now take the next step of letting go. </p><p></p><p>The sooner you get out of the way, the better his chances. </p><p></p><p>Warm hugs. Take what you like and leave the rest. You can't save anybody but yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 660235, member: 17542"] Lil you son is learning that there is no one who will put up with an adult who doesn't work and doesn't take responsibility for very long. Can you step back from this and just let whatever happens, happen? The grandparents are doing just fine. The girlfriends family has spoken. Can you go silent and wait? He is away from you now. Feel the blessed relief of it and release him to whatever happens next. Physical separation can be such a gift with dcs if we will claim it. It is a time for us but continuing to engage robs us of that gift. I know it is very hard to do. You are walking the path---now take the next step of letting go. The sooner you get out of the way, the better his chances. Warm hugs. Take what you like and leave the rest. You can't save anybody but yourself. [/QUOTE]
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