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How Can You Tell What is Normal?
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 275964" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Once you put your hand to the plough there is not turning back. Stick to your decisions and don't back down. That is what she will be counting on, what will undermine anything you have achieved.</p><p></p><p>If you have begun a process of notifying people of your concerns overher threats, then follow through. Don't devalue your previous efforts by going all wishy washy on them. Do NOT say to the hospital people (or the police), "Oh, maybe I over-reacted." You may want to say that in order to hear them say to you, "It's OK, you did the right thing," but you won't hear that. You must look for that validation form within yourself, don't go fishing for it from anyoone else because if you do, you will cause a lot of confusion and could overturn any progress made.</p><p></p><p>Have faith in yourself and your decisions. Your instincts (the ones tat have you locknig your bedroom doors at night) are worth listening to.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 275964, member: 1991"] Once you put your hand to the plough there is not turning back. Stick to your decisions and don't back down. That is what she will be counting on, what will undermine anything you have achieved. If you have begun a process of notifying people of your concerns overher threats, then follow through. Don't devalue your previous efforts by going all wishy washy on them. Do NOT say to the hospital people (or the police), "Oh, maybe I over-reacted." You may want to say that in order to hear them say to you, "It's OK, you did the right thing," but you won't hear that. You must look for that validation form within yourself, don't go fishing for it from anyoone else because if you do, you will cause a lot of confusion and could overturn any progress made. Have faith in yourself and your decisions. Your instincts (the ones tat have you locknig your bedroom doors at night) are worth listening to. Marg [/QUOTE]
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