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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 489839" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Buddy, my heart always goes out to you. Very briefly, my mother had a brain tumor and then eight years later she also got brain cancer. The trauma of the surgery left her a very different type of person and she was unable to control herself in various situations. </p><p></p><p>With your sweet, precious son, perhaps his behavior is mostly due to his surgery, which had to have been quite invasive. If so, truly, if it were my own son, I'd lower my expectations that he could actually be in total control in stimulating family situations, and make quiet holidays at home, skipping the extras that other kids may find fun. I can only imagine how much you'd miss the little guy if he were in respite for Christmas.</p><p></p><p></p><p>When Sonic was young we learned to modify our holidays so that he could enjoy and tolerate them and started doing a quiet Christmas at home. Even now that he is eighteen, he prefers being home for the holidays. I just think our differently wired kids like as little change as possible.</p><p></p><p>Hugs, and you're such a great mom!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 489839, member: 1550"] Buddy, my heart always goes out to you. Very briefly, my mother had a brain tumor and then eight years later she also got brain cancer. The trauma of the surgery left her a very different type of person and she was unable to control herself in various situations. With your sweet, precious son, perhaps his behavior is mostly due to his surgery, which had to have been quite invasive. If so, truly, if it were my own son, I'd lower my expectations that he could actually be in total control in stimulating family situations, and make quiet holidays at home, skipping the extras that other kids may find fun. I can only imagine how much you'd miss the little guy if he were in respite for Christmas. When Sonic was young we learned to modify our holidays so that he could enjoy and tolerate them and started doing a quiet Christmas at home. Even now that he is eighteen, he prefers being home for the holidays. I just think our differently wired kids like as little change as possible. Hugs, and you're such a great mom! [/QUOTE]
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