Well I was told today by difficult child's therapist that he is tired of being there and he and another had planned to run. They layered there clothes and personal items in their pockets --the other boy did run but difficult child did not --He had his room searched and they found one tablet of medication that he apparently at some point had cheeked and held onto and a magic marker which I was told was no big deal and he would have had an easy consequence but he had a melt down and started yelling at staff members and throwing chairs. He was already on level and was about to start having previledges but now he lost everything. His therapist said that unless value option gives him more time there -they will have to discharge him as unsuccessful so I don't know what will happen to him now. They are telling him that he will go back to detention but telling me something else. He told several people that its all my fault that he is there so how do I help him. Him being gone is killing me inside and I dont know what to do! Any ideas?