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How do u handle "It's not FAIR"??
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<blockquote data-quote="P-nut2004" data-source="post: 421891" data-attributes="member: 11740"><p>JJJ- Thank you! You did such a wonderful job of laying that all out. Your example of telling easy child 1 it would be like having her drive to the store was excellent & Im definitely going to use it. I have been doing some of these things but need to focus more on the positive reinforcements. </p><p></p><p>Hope & Daisy: You are both right, it isn't fair and will never be fair and they all have to learn to accept their differences and understand that they are different ppl with different needs. Thank you!</p><p></p><p>I realized today that although we knew things were not right with difficult child somewhere between 3 & 4 yrs old I kept hoping she just needed time, even once we started to get the dxs and broke down and decided medications were inevitable I didn't internalize it. I am just now beginning to realize what all of this means for her future and I am definitely grieving to some degree as I know she will never be 'normal' and I am so scared of the future now. Having to explain her diagnosis, especially to her, makes it all real and tangible but I think approaching each child individually will make it easier.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="P-nut2004, post: 421891, member: 11740"] JJJ- Thank you! You did such a wonderful job of laying that all out. Your example of telling easy child 1 it would be like having her drive to the store was excellent & Im definitely going to use it. I have been doing some of these things but need to focus more on the positive reinforcements. Hope & Daisy: You are both right, it isn't fair and will never be fair and they all have to learn to accept their differences and understand that they are different ppl with different needs. Thank you! I realized today that although we knew things were not right with difficult child somewhere between 3 & 4 yrs old I kept hoping she just needed time, even once we started to get the dxs and broke down and decided medications were inevitable I didn't internalize it. I am just now beginning to realize what all of this means for her future and I am definitely grieving to some degree as I know she will never be 'normal' and I am so scared of the future now. Having to explain her diagnosis, especially to her, makes it all real and tangible but I think approaching each child individually will make it easier. [/QUOTE]
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