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how do you deal with the feelings of guilt?
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<blockquote data-quote="mom_in_training" data-source="post: 143811" data-attributes="member: 2727"><p>Others have given some great insight with their experiences and I think along the same lines as mom_to_3</p><p>"When your daughter gets out of jail, I would befriend her in anyway possible for one important reason. I would do my best to convince her to get her tubes tied. I would volunteer to pay her co pays if she had insurance, or I would be seriously looking for a low cost way to get it done and pay for it yourself. At the very least, get her to get an I.U.D. and you pay for it. I hope I didn't offend, I hope you heard that your daughters actions are not a reflection of you or of your parenting. Her actions are not your responsibility nor should they be your shame." Some people regardless do not have any business bringing an innocent baby into the world. It breaks my heart to hear about lil babies being the victims of abuse. It does not matter who did what, There is no excuse good enough for their outragious behaviour abusing an innocent lil baby. I personally would get tired of hearing the excuses that your difficult child puts out there and I would have no problem telling her so. I would just block the calls from any jail facility from calling my home. And as far as feeling guilty? Guilt is a feeling that one would have (Normal) if they did something wrong. You have done nothing wrong! She needs to stop with the excuses and take responsibility for her bad choices. She was the one that put herself where she is today. It can play on the emotions of any Mom but that is where we as Moms have to learn to detach and take the emotions as others have said out of it. I am sorry that your difficult child has brought this into your life. Hope the baby is doing well. Poor thing.</p><p>__________________</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_in_training, post: 143811, member: 2727"] Others have given some great insight with their experiences and I think along the same lines as mom_to_3 "When your daughter gets out of jail, I would befriend her in anyway possible for one important reason. I would do my best to convince her to get her tubes tied. I would volunteer to pay her co pays if she had insurance, or I would be seriously looking for a low cost way to get it done and pay for it yourself. At the very least, get her to get an I.U.D. and you pay for it. I hope I didn't offend, I hope you heard that your daughters actions are not a reflection of you or of your parenting. Her actions are not your responsibility nor should they be your shame." Some people regardless do not have any business bringing an innocent baby into the world. It breaks my heart to hear about lil babies being the victims of abuse. It does not matter who did what, There is no excuse good enough for their outragious behaviour abusing an innocent lil baby. I personally would get tired of hearing the excuses that your difficult child puts out there and I would have no problem telling her so. I would just block the calls from any jail facility from calling my home. And as far as feeling guilty? Guilt is a feeling that one would have (Normal) if they did something wrong. You have done nothing wrong! She needs to stop with the excuses and take responsibility for her bad choices. She was the one that put herself where she is today. It can play on the emotions of any Mom but that is where we as Moms have to learn to detach and take the emotions as others have said out of it. I am sorry that your difficult child has brought this into your life. Hope the baby is doing well. Poor thing. __________________ [/QUOTE]
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